So what is a Dick Pic? Ladies I think we have all gotten a few in our day. The man is sometimes completely naked, sometimes semi-clothed, but there it is…in all its glory their erect penis proudly displayed for all of the internet to see! I can understand the general thinking of a man [...]
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eHarmony is useless!
Update 1/18/12 eHarmony recently sent me an email completely out of the blue claiming a member was sending me an “icebreaker”. I found this highly shady since I hadn’t been a member now for a year, I thought it was longer than that but now that I look at this original email I see that [...]
Dating After Divorce – Why is it so difficult in your late thirties?
I decided to re-write this blog post because it was one of the single most popular articles I have ever written. As I noticed how many reads it was getting everyday I decided that I hated it and wanted to redo it. Until I got divorced, I was completely unaware of the realities of dating [...]
The Myth of the Magic Vagina
I used to perform as Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty at birthday parties for little girls. Something about re-telling the stories to these young impressionable females got to me, and suddenly one day I just couldn’t do it anymore. The high budget films watched repeatedly are far more influential to them, but I still didn’t want [...]
Why enabling depression is impossible.
Someone searched on my blog for the following and it caused me to go cold. How to stop enabling depression The amount of misunderstanding in that one simple statement is enormous. I just wrote a blog about addiction, and now I am back on depression. So here we go. Depression and addiction are often present [...]
What Men should NOT do on a first or second date.
Apparently women purchase 80% of all books sold, including the books marketed to men. Women are more likely to buy a book for a man than he might buy for himself. So although people keep telling me to write an advice book for men, I don’t see much of a market for it. Men just [...]
Unconditional Love – Why it is such a bad idea
I have a feeling this post might upset some people. But I have thought that before and it hasn’t stopped me yet. As Valentine’s Day approaches I think of the cliché line that is often uttered in Victorian novels, romantic comedies and tales of epic romances. I will always love you, unconditionally I find this [...]
When you finally stop enabling and tell your friend to sober up.
I wrote this months ago about a former friend. I decided to not publish it because I worried that this former friend might see this and freak out. At this point I doubt she reads my blog or cares what I have to say. I don’t drink alcohol often, usually only a few times a [...]
Is Madonna Too Old for the Halftime show or is it just a Double standard?
I never watch the Super Bowl, normally I could care less. But this year the NY Giants were playing and after their dramatic win to the 49′s in the playoffs I was excited enough to watch the game projected on a huge screen with a couple dozen of my closest friends down at Coney Island [...]
Life After Divorce: The emotional prism
One of my most popular blog posts is about the illness of depression. A well-meaning friend just posted something on Facebook basically with the following sentiment, I will paraphrase for length Don’t be negative or sad, we have all had tough times. And I have had a lot of tragedy in my life but I [...]
Online Dating – Why you get ignored
This post is more for the men out there than the women. But if you have spent a lot of time on dating websites you will totally relate to these suggestions. So thanks to the handy features on WordPress, I can tell what people search for when they stumble upon this blog. One of the [...]
Rejected by eHarmony? – Share your stories here!
So the title says it all. I had a horrible situation with eHarmony and I blogged about it. Then about a year later they sent my email an “icebreaker” from some user called “Craig”. I shut down my account a year ago. So either they are still using my account without my consent, or this [...]
Dating After Divorce – Online Dating – The Liars
I should really call this more adventures in NOT online dating because I am online, but I am not really going on any dates. Why? Well most of the guys that email me have what I would call not so desirable profiles, live way to far away or are way out of my age range [...]
